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  • Posted by Parental Thriving
  • Date January 7, 2022
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“Time up, come on switch off your tablet”

“I said now!!”

So much for kind and firm.

I said to myself: I am tired, frustrated, angry, fed up, completely done for the day – as a way to justify my tone of voice.

I frowned some more. I refuse to put guilt on myself for my reaction and yet, I acknowledged that no matter what, it was uncalled for and I am the adult who need to keep my shit together.

So with a sigh and some extra love to myself, I let myself calm down, went to my child, apologised and said: “I know you were enjoying playing your game and your screen time is used up. Shall I play a bit with you instead?”

A few years ago, I would have held on tight to my anger as a way to not feel guilt.

And when I remember that, I know that despite what feels like very slow progress, progress is happening and my children are witnessing an imperfect parent doing her best and changing – maybe slowly- but changing.

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